Have you ever pondered the consequences of “too” in a conversation. The simple word that is commonly misrepresented (i.e. to, two) is possibly one of the most defining words in the english language. When that little word “too” is utilized, it will define the conversation and inform you about what’s to come. Because what is to come might as well be a position paper on XYZ. The conversation will be somewhat predictable, as the conversation will automatically move from dialogue to influence. For instance, imagine the relevance of these “too” phrases in a conversation.
- Too big to…
- Too important to…
- Too integral to…
- Too established to…
- Too strong to…
- Too risky to…
- Too dangerous to…
Yes, those all important, and telling “Too” phrases describe institutions, communities and individuals. They describe current thinking and potential consequences of defying the consequences of “Too.” And in every conversation where I come across “Too”, I know what will follow.
However, you too can neutralize the influence of “too.” And its as simple as asking a question such as:
- But, how does that…
- Excuse me, doesn’t that…
- How does that…
Yes, the “does that” phrase is the perfect neutralizer to “too.” And its a little trick that you too, should never forget.
